Thatha writes...

Our Scriptures and their benevolent considerations towards the human beings:

Broadly, the human life has been grouped into four divisions: Balya, Youwana, Samsara and Vanaprastha. Next the circumstances/environments under which have to function got classified as the respective yoga dharmamsas they vary from yugam to yugam. Our Seers then came out with the related scriptures like Vishnu Puraanam etc. detailed out the above initially through strictly defined oral traditions to maintain their sanctity and purity.

The problems commenced when our scriptures got recorded in palm leaves/books and the related and the related clarificatory write-ups started sprouting up from different vested interests. The great seers Aadhi Shankara, Sri Ramanujam and Sri Madhawa added their own interpretations under the headings Advaitham, Visishtaaadhvaitham and Swaijham. Their approaches then got multiplied into innumerous sub-groups. However, the basic approach that every human being should get the best out of this present life itself continued as a latent life blood behind though not obviously apparent.

Commencing with ground wise spiritual religious approaches, Lord Krishna reduced the entire gamut to a divinity to an individual human face to face in his kaliyug closing Sreemath bhagawath Geetha.

We, the present generation, find ourselves in the 5000th year kaliyug with its total duration of 4,32,000 human years.

It is time to understand and appreciate that each human has two orientations in one's life in a day to day basis. They are external oriented and the internal oriented (nivruth) also called as margs. it should not be overlooked that the prospects of one impinging on the other either directly or indirectly have to be confronted by each of us. 

Next comes the two separate groundings of the humans into sexes with commonalities between the two but specifics exclusive for the female sex for bearing the important responsibility for human birth and reproduction.

With all the above in mind here is a common way of day to day human way of life to achieve the best out of one's life - both sexes - in the present life itself.

No doubt when one starts these practices what is the related balance sheet in that regard of each one do matter.

As we are discussing about one's present life in the present kaliyug environment, the other important aspects after one's death, concepts of heaven and hell and the prevalent anthropomorphic concept of divinity rather personal to each of us have been scrupulously avoided here.

It should, however, be noted that what has been spelt out here are within the comfort realm of each one to be put in to practice without any extra strain and also not seriously affecting one's personal day to day life.

Here are the suggestions. please start giving them a serious try. As already stated earlier, with the present balance sheet of your own life, make your yet-to-come life span more interestingly and more productive to yourself. You have it in you. Go ahead.

Best Wishes,

V.Sundararajan (Aged 94)

Suggestions...........

The said suggestions to implement in your day to day life to obtain in you or this life itself. All the Best!

1. Physical Welfare: Physical welfare provides a healthier body for you to function more effectively and internally feel more confident and better. At least if not regularly daily exercise 3 to 5 times a week and chose those exercises etc. that suit your physical condition to start with. Your body and the feeling within you would suggest improvements thereto as you go along.

2. Mental Health: Mental Health follows as to how you to developing situations from time to time: watch then closely and continuous suggestions would arise from within you to improve upon them. Totally avoid resorting to smoking tobacco and also intake of alcoholic drink.

3. Financial Strength: Financial Strength is a must. The way to develop the same should be constantly at the back of your mind. Acceptably this aspect may differ widely from individual to individual which also depends upon your present balance sheet and the related opportunities before you and the available qualification and capacity etc. thereto at your own balance sheet to start with and prospects of improving them as you go by.

4. But even at your present levels save money for any eventualities that might crop up necessitating the same. It is a must to save towards a pensionary support after your retirement.

5. Next that matters are your relationship with your family, near enough friends, neighbors and your co-workers, supervisors, etc. this also includes your relationship with the natural environment. Also within which you spend your life from time to time.

6. Strive always to achieve what could be styled as work-life balance which could cover personal satisfaction in the work you do or turn out. Be fanatically patriotic to the institution for which you work.

7. Listen carefully to others, accurately assess your resources before responding and measure your words, action thereto without being harsh but as polite as practicable in conveying what you consider as appropriate and yet true without hurting the least the person you respond to.

8. your emotions should be externally not visible as far as practicable in any disturbing or enjoyable situation in which you find yourself at any given time.

9. Equip with and improve your skill to socialize. Be/look confident in dealing with any situation and to try to never openly exhibit your personal agitation if any in a given situation and thus exposing your shortcoming in that record.

10. Clearly/Deeply understand your cultural background. Similarly understand the same also of others also while recognizing that others might be possibly contradicting you also. But don't fail to realize that they have their own right to do so.

11. Your own spiritual well-being is an ongoing process which could lead you to specific religious fold. But realize that it couldn't be also so on deeper understanding of your own spiritual background. Create quality time for solitude for meditation and also prayer so your personal deity if you happen to feel so moved at any time.

12. Transcendental experience comes to one even when one is fully awake and engaged in a given moment/situation. Don't get obsessed with the past/future that might at any particular time/situation upset your equanimity. Try always to take things as they happen. Don’t doubt in line with your past experience and future expectations.

13. Your sex life does matter with women's sex between routine/romantic. Death is a state of the body. Feeling satisfied and comfortable is a state of being so within.